By Tiffany Williams-Jallow, Relationships360° Founder
The other day I was considering how frantic our time here is. Because we are so preoccupied with our never ending tasks, I realized that too often we forget to enjoy life’s small treasures along the way . Someone once said there will be no great ending to a wretched journey.
More often than not you will have a better time if you take your time. Quit hurrying so much to get where you are going, but alternatively have fun along the way.
If you are involved in a relationship, this can especially ring true. The weekly grind of supporting a family, teaching our children and many other responsibilities can distract us from being nice and taking care of the one you love.
Sometimes the easiest thing for me to do is to just quit thinking about it and go on with my busy ways. So is this the right answer?
Part of the answer lies with how do you want your love one or special partner to feel about you and to treat you?
Do you want him or her to be happy with you? Would you like your wife or husband to be thrilled to see you and anticipate the next time they will spend time with you? Almost everybody wants to be wanted.
As amazing as this seems It will come as no surprise, it doesn’t just happen automatically. In fact some might even suggest that it takes work. Maybe you need to do something special for them to help them appreciate you and realize how much they love you.
It takes two to tango. In other words, you can’t have a “one way” relationship and expect both parties to be happy with the arrangement. You need to try first if you want your partner to try too. Someone has to start, so why not make it you?
Just like everything in this world. You get as much as you give.
So if you have a husband and you want to make him happy, do something special for him to show him that you love him. Don’t give him a hard time for little things that bother you. Slip into some sexy lingerie some evenings when you are alone at home. Show him how much he means to you.
If you’ve got a girlfriend that you want more attention from, maybe you should try giving her more first. Help her do the dishes. Bring her some flowers. Go out and get her some great lingerie for her birthday. Take her out to dinner. Let her know how much you adore her.
It is critical to take a little time out of your hectic life to let your lover know that you are thinking of them and that they mean the world to you. The return on your investment is certain to be far greater than the small amount of work that you had to do.
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